THE GIFT OF PERFECT LOVE

The older I get, the more I love birthdays. I see them as opportunities to pause and reflect on where I’ve been and where I want to go. I also enjoy birthdays because you get gifts – good gifts. Over the past year, I’ve been thinking, reflecting, and writing about my struggles with self-esteem as a young person and how those struggles impacted the decisions I made as a teenager/young adult. Today, on my 42nd birthday, I want to tell my “younger self” about THE GIFT. THE GIFT of God’s perfect LOVE.

A LETTER TO MY YOUNGER SELF 

Your value can’t be found in the arms of young men

Your worth can’t be seen through the eyes of your friends

Your self-esteem can’t be obtained through the affections of others

Your heart won’t be protected when given to another

Your happiness won’t come from material things

Your problems won’t end when you finally get that ring

Who you are isn’t really based on you

And  it’s definitely not based on the opinions of few

You’ve been uniquely designed by the Creator of the earth

In Him is where you’ll find your worth

So, do your best to silence the confusion and chatter

You are perfectly LOVED by God … and that’s all that matters

Karris